My Horoscope Has Been On Point

Alright ya’ll so I am a very spiritual person. The energy and vibes of others create a certain energy for me. If I am feeling negative vibes, best believe I will be out.

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I learned the I cannot function around negative people. It just isn’t my life style. Being that I am all spiritual and stuff. I started reading up on my horoscope. ( Thanks to my BFF Kiaina). For the last few days, it has literally been telling me that I need to take a stance with my emotions and my passions because people are ready to listen. It also has been telling me that my past relationships with people are going to reappear so do not be shock about it. It wants me to stand up to the past and let it know what exactly I want. Girl, let me tell you how much these past few days have been. It’s scary to know that some random person writing these blurbs on my horoscope knows the vibes and energy of my life.

The thoughtfulness of this post is not to become spiritual or read up on your horoscope every single day. This post is about standing up for what you believe because people are listening even though you think they are not and also dealing with your past that is trying to re-enter your life. Sometimes my goals for BBF is super high, but I also create small goals for myself and I have to be realistic sometimes as well. I can’t compare my success with anyone else’s because everyone measure their success so differently. Regardless on if I think I am not making a change, a change is happening and it’s impacting someone. Moreover, don’t be rude or nasty about past situations, try to be open on why they are re-entering your life. However, if you left certain relationships in the past, tell yourself why they were left in the past and how much you have grown from not having them in your life. Most importantly, think about how positive and vibrant your life has been by dropping off bad vibes that drained your aura.

June 21st Horoscope : Today is an excellent day to say exactly how you feel, Aquarius. Your thinking is sharp and clear. Once you start talking, you may never stop. People will listen extra carefully to your words. You have a great deal of influence, so realize how much impact you have on the environment. You will be able to accomplish a lot.

June 22nd Horoscope : Be aggressive with your thoughts today, Aquarius. You might feel a bit emotionally detached. You will most certainly want your freedom. Spend some time alone to sort things out. An ex from years ago might appear on your doorstep, so don’t be too surprised when he or she shows up. Take a nonjudgmental attitude toward everything you encounter.

P.S. I read these mid-day or after my day is over. Sometimes I feel like reading them at the start of your day well actually set the tone of how your day plays out. You may even put yourself in certain situations that makes this horoscope occur. 

Entry: Tanaya 

 

Flawed, but Worth It

Caraneisha Scott is a young woman who likes to read and also working her hardest to attend college. Caraneisha is looking into activities and a job field that allows her to build things and to get her hands dirty.

Caraneisha has a flaw of anger and trust issues. She has come to a realization that she allows her anger to form words and expression that are aggressive towards others. She does not like being talked down to. Rather then thinking before she does, she does before she thinks. Her trust issues comes from the mistreatment in relationships by being cheated on and lied to.

She has accepted the fact that she has issues with her anger and trust, but she is working on her change to think before she does anything or says anything and also trusting people more. Sometimes she finds herself in a tight place because she wants to respond to people’s comments, but she walks away or stays quiet.

Caraneisha’s Advice

 Just keep a level head. I know it’s not gonna be easy, but just try if I can you can.

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Tribute to You 

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As we all may know, yesterday was Father’s Day and NO we didn’t forget it.

We as a group came together and all did a write up about our fathers or father roles. Here are some! Hope you enjoy and feel free to comment your appreciation for your father in the comments 💕

My father means so much to me because he shows me exactly what I’m worth . Whether when he’s encouraging me or by just (for lack of better words) showing me how men ain’t shit. Like my father showing me his “ain’t shit” side and being open with me helped figure out what/who I want in life and I’ll always appreciate that honest. 

My father is so important to me because he’s one guy that I know for sure his love is unconditional and pure. 

My father means so much to me because he stepped in when my mom slacked up a little bit. He’s been my rock since I was a kid especially emotionally and educationally.

There’s not one time I don’t hear a lecture from my dad and i know its out of love & care lol so I’m grateful.

I am beyond grateful for my father. He has thought me what it is to be loved by a guy. More importantly, he showed me that I should never let down my confidence or back down from something because of my fears. 

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FYI : Father’s Day is every day

They Tried ME, but the Blessings Still Came

So as I go into my senior year of college, I have come to the realization that I will soon be a real adult lol. As in like working a 9-5, paying bills and taking all the responsilbiites that my mom has been dealing with for the last 21 years. Anyway, being that it is summer and all. Yoga-better-person-1.-patient.gifMy school has encouraged me to get an internship that focuses on my major or passion, and most importantly an internship that can give me a permeant job when I graduate. I found an internship that focuses heavily on my passion of empowering young women of color, but lord they tested my patience.

Throughout the process of getting this internship, there were many signs that told me that it was not the fit for me. I ignored the signs because I really wanted to be apart of an internship that stood for what I loved most. However, I realized that my happiness for the job was slowly dripping away. I figured out it would be best to drop the internship and find another internship that interest me. Ignoring signs are sometimes not good because those signs tend to know what is best for you. Sometimes the things you love will come to you, but it may not be good for you or your happiness. I am proud to say that I found another internships that fulfills my passion of helping young women succeed in life.

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Thoughtfulness: When you feel like something is not for you, let it go. Your time will come around and when it does it will come with greatness.

Entry: Tanaya

Walk With Vee on a Mission Possible

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Vanity Duran graduated with her B.S. in Broadcast Journalism from Florida A&M University. She is currently working at Florida A&M University as a Program Assistant for the university’s Office of Enrollment Management and TRIO Student Support Services. Vanity was born as a proud Dominican in Passaic, NJ and was raised in Tampa, FL.

Body issues has been Vanity’s flaw for the LONGEST. It’s interfered with trust for others, her confidences and goals.

This is her flaw because since forever, her body type has never been promoted. It’s always all about being thin or super thick and curvy, which she is neither. “I’ve worked out but then would stop.” It may even be deeper than that, but from what she knows her body issues have tortured her for years.

Depending on Vanity is feeling her acceptance of her body changes. Sometimes she accepts it and work on its, while sometimes she doesn’t accept it, but still works on it. Vanity will not give up until she sees what she likes.

Vanity’s Advice 

JUST KEEP GOING! KEEP WAKING up to go to the gym, keep eating clean. We are not alone no matter how long it takes us.

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Ladies, y’all cool with your man telling you what to NOT wear ?

Ladies lets get into the Girl Chat discussion today. It was a bit juicy as one of our members stated Man this is a great talk.Today our discussion was based on the the acceptance of dressing when being a girlfriend.

I know ya have saw those memes that say …

So we began to discuss if a boyfriend has the power of telling his girlfriend to wear certain outfits or styles. While some stated  that a boyfriend can say whatever he wants to say and to express his feelings toward his girlfriend, the girl is the one to decided the choice of her clothing. Others stated that a lady should known what is appropriate to represent herself and her boyfriend to show respect for themselves and the relationship.

Dressing is based on one’s style, so if your boyfriend met you in that style, he should be okay with how you dress and not try to change your style because that’s how you may express yourself.

Ladies being that we live in a pathetical society be mindful that the way you dress shows how you present yourself. Because no matter what happens, no matter how amazing we feel at the end of the day, how we dress represents how we are treated.

So ladies, we ask you If you were dressed a certain way, and your boyfriend did not like it, would you change your outfit or style for him ? Why or why not ? Does your boyfriend have a say in what you can wear ? 

 

Baby you summer time fine

Summa’ Summa’ Summa tiiiiime….

I mean apart from suffering from Bostons Bipolar weather; i’ve been thinking about the summer and all the opportunities there are with all this “free” time. I want to lose weight, I want my youtube page to get better, I want a job that pays me 3 times minimum wage lol, but what am I GOING to do.

I think the summer time is a time that most people take to have all the fun they don’t get to have during the school year or work  year. What we don’t make enough time for is self evaluation and progress. Like CHANGE don’t happen overnight and we all want something better or ourselves….I hope.giphy lol but this isn’t.

Then there are some people that  overthink CHANGE and find so many things wrong within themselves that they want to be different. Those people are sometimes the same people that aspire to be someone they aren’t Whether that be how they look or how they act. But that isn’t what evaluation and relaxation is about. It is the complete opposite. Take time to be alone and understand who you are and where you stand as an individual. THEN decide what you want for yourself, not because someone else has or does or wear, but because you would want it to be.

Imagine yourself with all of the amenities and changes you want and don’t compare it to any other person. With all the time the summer may bring, you can find parts of yourself that you completely ignored because you were busy. This is a MENTAL thing, it’s about the mind and the body. The only MIND and Body that you have.

So get a journal and write in it or grab that book you’ve been saying “oh I need to read that”. Do those things that you want to change or improve and watch how MENTALLY relieved you are at the end of summer;)

Entry: Akeda